Meet sexy Thai girls on your holiday, where you are guaranteed to find the girls of your dreams and live a happy fun filled holiday.
Thai girls are easy to have sex with.
A Thai girl only marries for want money and a green card.
These are the kind of over simplified headlines about Thai girls you see every day on the internet.
On this page
- Relationships with a bargirl
- Beyond Pattaya: What are Thai girls really like?
- Personalities of Thai girls
- Sex with Thai girls
- Are regular Thai girls just as easy to have sex with?
- The best way to meet and date Thai girls
- Attractiveness: Does a Thai girl care about your age or looks?
- The innocent Thai girl who married a monster
Many men come to Thailand seeking to befriend Thai girls during their holiday, a few to marry or perhaps seek a more long term relationship with Thai girls. Indeed its very common a lot of people in the former group to turn into the latter. But often, the single biggest mistake they make is they look for good Thai girls in the wrong place as you will see later in this article.
The old saying goes that there is someone for everyone and in Thailand that is definitely the case for a single white male. The reason being, Thai girls will prefer dating foreign men over the average Issan village kind of guy any day.
If you’re ready and open to explore the art of dating Thai girls then get comfortable because this might take a while. I’ll show you the best way to meet and date Thai girls girls and reveal the secrets to turn your online dates into an offline one in the shortest possible time. You’ll also learn how to avoid the biggest mistakes that could leave you with an empty wallet and a broken heart. Let’s just say it’s going to a wild but amazing ride.
In my circle of friends, the collective opinion is, once you’ve dated a genuine Thai girl, you’re going to booked for ever. So proceed only if you can deal with that!
Lets start by addressing the single most hotly debated topic on the internet when it comes to Thai girls.
Relationships with a bargirl.
A Thai girl who work in GoGo bars and girly bars all over Thailand are referred to as a Bargirl in internet parlance. A Bargirl sell herself and will be happy to be your vacation girlfriend for money. A bargirl will love you and treat you great and give you happiness like you’ve never experienced before but beware… Once the money runs out usually so will the girl. This is a business and like any business, you get what you pay for and if you can’t pay you don’t get.
If you’re new to the bar scene, I’ll narrow down to the only two rules of engagement you need to follow if you decide to go down the bargirl route.
Stick to these and you can have fun filled holidays with a Thai girl for as long as you want.
But on the other hand, if you believe you’ve started to develop feelings for a bargirl, I strongly encourage you to read our discussion on relationships with a bargirl. That piece has a much more nuanced discussion and details on the complexities and challenges you’re likely to face (and how to overcome them) if you’re contemplating a long term relationship with a Thai girl who happens to work at the bar.
Anybody who’s been in the bar scene in Thailand long enough will be able to confirm the success stories of relationships with bargirls they have personally witnessed. Indeed there has been research in recent times on the dynamics of short-term as well as long-term relationships between bargirls and Western men. The research papers concludes that a career as a bargirl offers them neither economic security nor emotional stability which made them join the profession in the first place.
Know that bargirls are not bad people by any means. Sure there might be a few gold diggers like in the video above. But a vast majority of them are just trying to feed their family and perhaps get a faithful partner. Research in this area has shown that its not common for bargirls to get emotionally attached to men they meet at the bar but which often ends with a lot of emotional and sometimes economic distress for all the parties involved.
Think beyond Pattaya bar girls – what are Thai girls really like?
Thai girls are pretty and you definitely wont run out of of single Thai girls looking for some company in Thailand! From skinny and hot pale skinned girls to some of the tanner yet stunningly beautiful ones, they are definitely a treat for our eyes!
Appearance – beautiful girls everywhere
If I had to summarize what girls from different parts of the country look like, this is how I’d do it:
Thai girls from Northern regions are cutest, those from the East are the sexiest, and those from the Central and Southern regions are the hottest. Of course, it’s just my personal opinion, so take it for what its worth.
Thai girls love white skin and silky hair
Thai girls are super crazy about the hair and beauty products they use in their everyday lives. They go the extra mile to find out what is actually good for their hair or skin. And you’ll definitely notice it the first moment you step out of that aeroplane. Their hair is beautiful and silky smooth – the kind you see in commercials from supermodels!
The hot and sexy Thai girls!
Let’s face it. There are a lot more hot Thai girls, than compared western girls have relatively large and plump bodies. It’s just a different gene set (and a lot less McDonalds I suppose)
There are plenty of hot Thai girls are for you if you’re like me and love girls with a nice, slim body. You’ll notice how petite, slim, fit bodies of sexy Thai girls are the moment you lay your eyes on one! Many would describe the overall looks of hot Thai girls as either cute or sexy and hot. In my experience Thai girls can go from cute to hot and sexy real fast with a simple change of clothes and hairstyle.
Of course, but it goes beyond the looks right? I know a lot of guys out there look more on the personality of a Thai girl rather than her physical traits alone (although you definitely won’t lose if you’re just looking for hot Thai girls to be be your girlfriend. There are plenty of sexy Thai girls who are looking for a boyfriend so you have nothing to worry about either way.)
I’ve met my fair share of girls in my adventures here in Thailand and here are some of the personality traits you should probably expect when dating hot Thai girls and if you bother to look around just a little bit you’ll easily be able to find plenty of sexy Thai girls who also have a great personality:
Personalities of Thai girls
While many Thai girls share similarities with one another, no two Thai girls are ever the same and they of course have their individuality as well.
Thai girls with limited financial resources
Thai girls from families with limited financial resources are very likely to be simple, down-to-earth and will understand your needs. These girls may be the right choice for you for you If you plan to settle down in the country side. You will find plenty of these girls in Isan. If you’re planning to get into a relationship with someone in this group, I recommend you read through the next few paragraphs to make yourself aware of the additional complexities that may arise in such a relationship.
Thai girls from Isan (and surrounding regions for the most part) usually have limited financial resources and education compared to their counterparts hailing from middle class or well to do families. Ability to speak English might be non-existent. This might make it a bit of a challenge to carry on long conversations unless the two of you choose to learn each other’s languages. This is changing gradually as more and more have access to the internet and try to learn from TV shows etc.
Thai girls from these regions might also be a tiny bit more traditional and have a relatively simple lifestyle compared to those who might have a more urban upbringing. For example, most of the girls I’ve met from Isan don’t drink or smoke and preferred a simple dinner date over a wild night out. So if you’re a guy who prefers a simple walk along the beach over wild parties, these Thai girls might be more attractive to you.
Don’t be too surprised though to find yourself dating a Jersey Shore clone or someone from a music video. They pick up the western mannerisms and the accent and it can be quite funny and endearing. I once dated a girl who kept saying “Oh my gawddddd” in a funny New Jersey accent. OK, she got annoying after a month but it was fun for a while.
This type of relationship might be OK for you if you’re planning to settle down in Thai countryside, because given her limited English (or whatever language is spoken in your country) ability, she may have a difficult time socializing with other people in your home country. This could lead to loneliness and frustration for her although more and more I see Thai girls living in many countries around the world and they always find each other with, you guessed it….. Social media.
So get her a phone and an internet connection and things could be perfectly fine. She will also love the chance to talk with family back home via Skype etc. And when she is happy you can be assured she will make you happy too. It might also be a good idea for you to learn Thai if you’re going to settle down in Thailand and get accustomed to the life in here.
Another challenge that she is likely to face is given her financial standing is that she will be constantly judged for being a gold digger. This is especially true if there is a significant age difference between you two. Like it or not, there are always judgemental people. Some will automatically assume she is a Pattaya bargirl and you will have to proactively protect her from being unfairly judged.
Speaking of the age difference, a girl from a poor family is likely to make bigger compromises and “settle” for less with regards to their partner. She might be willing to get into a relationship with someone twice her age even though it might not be her first choice. However, I recommend you keep the age difference between you and your partner to a reasonable gap because people in vastly different age groups tend to have vastly different lifestyles and this could take a toll on your relationship pretty quickly.
On the positive side, one great thing about dating poorer girls is that they tend to have simple tastes. If you’re not the type of guy who likes to showboat and please everyone, then you’ll probably do well with these girls. They will appreciate even the simpler things that you give them so long as they come from your heart.
Simple gifts will do just fine. Simple dates in simple places like a homely dinner in their local town will be more than enough. It’s more of the quality and less of the quantity with these girls. Just make sure that they feel loved and they will love you back with all of their heart.
In short, you will have to carry most of the relationship with these girls even when you’re married and she’s your wife because they usually tend to be insecure about their upbringing in life. They will be happy to play second fiddle to you and will need lots of assurance that you love them because love is one of the things that keep them together despite the hard times them and their families might be facing.
Middle class girls – the ideal girlfriend
Middle-class Thai girls usually have worked hard to get to where they are. You can expect most of them to have a college degree at-least. Most of the time, these girls will have a regular day job or own a small business and earn enough to support themselves.
These girls are mostly concentrated in the urban regions and are used to a modern, stylish lifestyle. Ability to speak English will be middling to good in most cases. You’ll be able to easily carry off a conversation on various topics with the girls in this group.
Exposure to western culture is limited to what they might have seen in the movies or television. So while they might not be completely used to western culture, cuisine or lifestyle, they will certainly have some familiarity with it. Adaptability to a western lifestyle will also be high if you plan to settle down in your home country.
They will have a say in all family matters, but might be willing to give in to your opinion on important decisions.
Your odds of hitting it off are highest with a woman in this group because the social compatibility is fairly high in most cases. If you find such a person and plan to settle down with your bride in your home country, chances are she’ll be able to find a job there and lend a helping hand with the family finances.
If this is the kind of girlfriend you’re looking for, online dating apps are your best bet to find them, because you certainly won’t find them in Thai bars. From young students to middle aged women with kids, this group account for the vast majority of profiles on Thai dating apps.
You may also find them via some mail-order bride services. While not as popular as a couple of decades ago, these services still do exists. These tour operators will arrange a meet and greet sessions with potential brides to help you find a compatible match that is best suitable for your and your bride’s likes and lifestyle. One positive aspect of these mail-order bride services is that some of them will perform extensive background checks on their clients to ensure genuine profiles.
The rich and affluent girls – money talks.
The very wealthy girls of Thailand! To my surprise, there are actually a lot of them! From my experience, I would split them into two groups.
The ones who were driven and made their wealth through hard work and perseverance and the ones who spend most of their nights clubbing, drinking and just wasting away their lives wherever they can with their dad’s credit card.
Do yourself a favour and prefer dating girls who have earned their wealth. Don’t get me wrong though! I’ve actually met some girls who were rich from their inheritances and some of them were really nice and realistic. But that’s a rarity that I’m pretty sure most men wouldn’t be willing to take a chance on.
Then there are the girls who worked hard for the most part in their lives in order to achieve the wealth they have now. These girls are all different, ranging from business women, high ranked employees, investors, doctors, lawyers, etc.
These girls also had great quality education early on in their lives so the language barrier won’t be a problem at all.
However, since these girls are used to the high life, they’ll probably expect the same from you as well.
They’ll want to know that their boyfriend is capable of supporting himself and is not just interested in her wealth! They will naturally expect their boyfriends to have a similar social and economic status on their own and perhaps also a decent educational background.
They’ll also want you to show them that you know how to treat a lady well. They won’t necessarily appreciate the simpler things and will want to see that you can play with them at their level. They will also open up many opportunities in Thailand for you and your business.
They will have an equal say in all family matters and your relationship will truly be on equal terms.
To some guys, these girls are usually are a challenge to maintain and they end up having broken relationships. I do know some guys who were willing to take the challenge and actually succeeded in having happy relationships with these girls.
The only way you’ll be able to meet such girls though is through direct introduction via your friends and associates or via some elite match making agencies.
Sex with Thai girls
Don’t let the shy and generally conservative nature of the regular girls that you see on TV or in the movies sway your opinion.
Thai girls are very private in public gives way to stories and gossip that they are cold and unlovable but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Over the years, I’ve made friends with many men having Thai girlfriends or spouse and I’ve never heard any of them complain about the lack of physical intimacy with regards to their Thai partners. If anything, they only had praises for having found a new, happy and an exceptionally satisfied life when it comes to physical intimacy with their partners.
Don’t believe me? Do a Google search to find people complaining about an unsatisfactory sex life with Thai girls. What you will see are numerous sex related stories with most of them highlighting a happy sex life. Of all the things you’ll find people complaining about, lack of physical intimacy isn’t going to be one of them.
Thailand girls and prostitution aka are regular Thai girls just as easy to have sex with?
We’ll let a Thai women who co-authored this article answer this question in her own words:
The question here is not as easy to answer as you would imagine.
First up you have to ask yourself this, if you were asked a very personal question like that would you answer it honestly? I think if you were completely honest with yourself the answer would be no or it’s unlikely.
This is also true for Thai girls. So when you ask, you are more likely to get a politically correct answer than their true beliefs.
Being a Thai woman who has lived in Thailand most of their life I can tell you this is an accurate assessment.
I know many girls both in the trade and outside of it and while they may not like prostitution they are certainly more open and aware of its benefits especially in regions where there is very little else to do to feed their families.
Thai girls will not talk openly about it but if it’s what they need to do then they will simply go ahead and do it if that’s what it takes to make ends meet. Of course if you ask their friends or family where they have gone you will get made up stories or flat out replies of “mind your own business” but for the most part this is to save face but both parties know that the other knows exactly what’s going on.
Many Thai girls will be very accepting of others if this is the path they have to take and will often help take care of the girls child or parents while the girl is away working.
In truth the only Thai girls that will be or pretend to be offended are the “Hiso” crowd.
Hiso being the term Thais use for upper class high society girls. In reality many of these are married into the Hiso life and were probably in the game at some point and landed themselves a white knight.
Of course there are many Thai girls that will be against the profession just like in any other country although I would guess it to be a bit less.
Many of the cleaners and food vendors would jump at the chance to make more money and perhaps meet their Knight but without being cruel they just don’t have the looks to be able to do it and have to make do with the lower paid work to get by. Obviously I am not suggesting that all cleaners etc want to be prostitutes but ask yourself this, when was the last time you saw a beautiful Thai girl cleaning a toilet or selling street food? Yes there are a few but not many.
For the lucky ones born into money they will go to college or get a job but may still choose to work at the bar to supplement their income. Yet others simply because they like the excitement and the fun of being wined and dined and bought gold etc.
I know a very well educated girl that has been in and out of the game all her life and could have a regular decent paying job but chooses to live the Gogo girl lifestyle.
So to sum up, yes Thai girls do have comparatively more relaxed views when it comes to working as bargirls. It’s a necessary evil that has given many a life they would never have had without it.
Thailand girls are extremely approachable and friendly and I’m not referring to just the ones who work in the bar scene. They are really easy to chat up with in almost all situations. However, a lot of people mis-read their friendliness as being “available”. Nothing could be farther from truth. And God forbid if you mistake a regular Thai girl for a bargirl. Don’t. Ever.
So if you’re done with the bar scene and want to have a real relationship with Thailand girls, treat them with respect and without being judgemental. So show a little compassion, treat them right and they’re reward you with happiness handsomely.
Thailand girls love romantic dramas with the cheesy TV shows. So let them feel like they are part of the show. Be romantic but do it in a subtle way.
The best way to meet and date Thai girls
Thai girls are very very friendly, approachable and so easy to get along with – provided to cross the first and only barrier – don’t come off as an obnoxious sex tourist who is just there looking for a vacation girlfriend. If you’re nice to them and respect them and their culture, they’ll return it in kind. Once you’ve crossed the “sex-tourist” barrier, you’ll have absolutely no problem in making friends.
Given how Thai guys mistreat their women, you can have a huge leg up by just being nice. Be polite. Make a funny joke (Falang eat Falang still cracks them up!). You’d be surprised how receptive Thai girls can be by just being nice to them!
And once they accept you as their partner, Thai girls will happily open the floodgates to your deepest, wildest fantasies. Trust me, they know how to treat their men right! And you’ll have a far far better time having a real girlfriend than visiting the seedier areas of Thailand. If you’re one who is only looking for some short time fun, that fine – we won’t judge you. I personally know plenty of people started of that way, but ended up in a committed relationship soon enough.
Best Thai dating apps for foreign men to meet beautiful Thai girls for free
With the explosion of internet and Thai singles apps, online internet dating has now become easier than ever to find a woman via online dating in Thailand. It’s really easy to find profiles of thousands of beautiful girls on Thai dating apps. ThaiCupid is the grand-daddy of all Thai dating apps and you’ll find at least a thousand women online at any time. Another alternative is Tinder. While Tinder does not have as many members online, the crowd there is younger of the two. Surprisingly, Thai dating websites and apps tend to have far more profiles of girl members than men.
While most of the girls on these dating websites are looking for a stable, long term relationship or marriage, its not uncommon for find a few profiles of girls who are looking for quick hookup. Depending on what you are looking for, just go to the settings section and set your dating preferences so the apps can match daters with the most suitable profiles, interests sexual orientation and other preferences. I strongly suggest you use these features so that you get the best matches with the highest odds of converting your online date into an offline one. Most of these dating services also have a chat feature (usually as a paid feature) that help you connect and get to know them before you meet in person which is great.
Internet dating services are indeed the best way to meet Thai girls if you aren’t already living in Thailand. If you prefer the traditional route (or you’d like to date carrier ladies such as doctors, lawyers, etc) then a traditional matchmaking service is something you may want to consider. There are plenty of such services where your matchmaker with introduce you to eligible single Thai girls.
But finding any Thai girl and finding the right one are two very different things. You can easily find a date but after the first meeting will your partner be the one that you stay with or will she be like one of those Bargirls you have heard about that only wants you for your money? There is no doubt that these GoGo girls exist but are all Thai girls the same? Is the Thai girl you meet going to be a real girlfriend with a real possibility of a long term relationship or even marriage or is she going to be a Walking Street professional and take you for everything she can get from you?
Many Thai girls who come from economically backward areas like Issan move to Phuket, Pattaya, Patong or Bangkok to make a living in the bar industry. They usually find jobs working as a bargirl in what is sometimes called as Gogo bars. They do it in the hope that one day they will meet their White Knight and break free from the game to go on to live a happy life.
So how do you meet good Thai girls that are different from the ones you have heard stories about? It’s all great fun to partake in the Pattaya nightlife when it’s for a week or two but when you want a permanent girlfriend well that’s a whole other story. We will show you how to not only find a Thai girl but how to find a decent Thai girl and hopefully make her your girlfriend and possibly Thai wife all going well.
When dating hot Thai girls…
Dating Thai girls is really easy. If you’re not already in Thailand, your best bet is via a Thai dating app. Just install on your phone and you’re all set to meet and chat with thousands of pretty, single Thai girls (and other Asian girls from South East Asia). If you’re already in Thailand, you should still consider online dating as it gives you an opportunity to chat with thousands of potential partners and get to know them before you decide to meet in person. Moreover, if you’re planning to visit Thailand soon, it’s a great way to get to know someone online first and make a plan to meet them in person when you arrive.
Once you’ve met someone you like and are planning to meet in person, you need to make yourself aware of Thai dating culture. It’s important to make yourself familiar with Thai dating culture and take advantage of the dating tips to impress your potential girlfriend. It’s important because you’d want to come off as a nice guy and not yet another sex tourist. Many men have asked her out before you, and there is a good chance she is going to be judging if you’re boyfriend material. So I strongly recommend you read through the linked article because the rules of engagement when dating good Thai girls are vastly different from what you might be used to back home or even what you might have read elsewhere.
If you’ve ever dated a Thai girl before, you’ll probably know that a lot of them are incredibly shy! You’re most likely going to make the first move when it comes to these girls so make sure to practice those pickup lines! They being shy is also a good thing as personally I’d rather hang round them than with a woman that’s loud and noisy. I’m more into girls who are a little quiet yet are fun, gentle and kind.
Attractiveness: Does a Thai girl care about your age or looks?
Search online for any Thai girl related topic and you can be sure you will get a hundred sites leading you to online dating sites, lad’s holiday websites or sex worker websites. Complete with at least one scantily clad photo of a sexy Thai girl, you’ll be promised you can you can have sex with any Thai girl by simply paying a bar fine and then some. And to be fair, they wouldn’t be wrong in saying so.
After all Thailand is the place synonymous with seedy underground massage parlours and girly bars where you can pick up any Thai girl who will be more than eager to please you. A place where anyone can buy anything as long as they have a full wallet and an empty heart. Every Thai girl is easy and any guy with the budget of a two-week millionaire can pull any girl they want regardless of what he looks like. That’s a fact right?
Well yes and no.
A typical Thai girl has way more choice now – someone their own age. The young have invaded the once wrinkled streets seeking their soulmate with a good family and the myth that they don’t care about how you look or how old you are has become just that, a myth.
A Thai girl dating young a western guy is pretty commonplace these days. Even more so now because things like online dating in Thailand has opened up the pool of “available” men significantly.
If you came here thinking that every Thai girl you meet online is just like a bargirl you would be in for a shock. They (that is to say a non bargirl) is very very different to the type portrayed in many internet forums and websites. They are sophisticated and driven. They know what they want and given the right circumstances they go out and get it. They will not settle for second best and god help you if you try to treat them like anything other than a respectable lady.
A Thai girl, like any other girl, have hearts and feelings and although many will never show their feelings in public you better believe that they love and feel just like you or me. In that respect, they are like any other race. They fall in love with all sorts. I mean you can’t help who you fall for and being handsome is no guarantee that you will land that seductive Thai girl.
Yes looks are obviously important because in any culture it’s what you first see that attracts people to each other but once that infatuation and excitement dissipates then just like anyone else the true feelings come up and how you behave or how you treat them becomes the big factor in how a relationship proceeds and succeeds.
In short, yes, usually a Thai girl will care about looks and age. They do just like any other culture. At the same time, most will be happy to look past your age or looks and even be your wife if they find someone they believe is right for them!
The innocent Thai girl who married a monster
In their own words, check out the story of a young and lovely Thai girl who married Loy despite his unconventional body tattoos. Of course, it wasn’t easy, but as you can see, a Thai girl will go the extra mile to make their relationship work when they believe they have found the right person for them. If you’d like to know more about their journey, you can check out their blog post.
Thai girls love the simple things in life – nice food, a comfortable home and a nice guy that treats them well.
Thai girls love their family but you can become part of that family and she will love you forever.