Beautiful Thai girls: How to meet and date a hot Thai girl in Thailand

Meet sexy Thai girls on your holiday, where you are guaranteed to find the girls of your dreams and live a happy fun filled holiday.

Thai girls are easy to have sex with.

A Thai girl only marries for want money and a green card.

These are the kind of over simplified headlines about Thai girls you see every day on the internet.

This article has been co-authored by two Thai women (who are happily married to Europeans for the past several years) and an American who has spent a considerable time in Thailand. All authors had full editorial independence to freely express their views. The authors are largely in agreement with the final version. The article is presented in first person voice in order to make it easier to read.

Many men come to Thailand seeking to befriend Thai girls during their holiday, a few to marry or perhaps seek a more long term relationship with Thai girls. Indeed its very common a lot of people in the former group to turn into the latter. But often, the single biggest mistake they make is they look for good Thai girls in the wrong place as you will see later in this article.

The old saying goes that there is someone for everyone and in Thailand that is definitely the case for a single white male. The reason being, Thai girls will prefer dating foreign men over the average Issan village kind of guy any day.

If you’re ready and open to explore the art of dating Thai girls then get comfortable because this might take a while. I’ll show you the best way to meet and date Thai girls girls and reveal the secrets to turn your online dates into an offline one in the shortest possible time. You’ll also learn how to avoid the biggest mistakes that could leave you with an empty wallet and a broken heart. Let’s just say it’s going to a wild but amazing ride.

In my circle of friends, the collective opinion is, once you’ve dated a genuine Thai girl, you’re going to booked for ever. So proceed only if you can deal with that!

Lets start by addressing the single most hotly debated topic on the internet when it comes to Thai girls.

Relationships with a bargirl.

A Thai girl who work in GoGo bars and girly bars all over Thailand are referred to as a Bargirl in internet parlance. A Bargirl sell herself and will be happy to be your vacation girlfriend for money. A bargirl will love you and treat you great and give you happiness like you’ve never experienced before but beware… Once the money runs out usually so will the girl. This is a business and like any business, you get what you pay for and if you can’t pay you don’t get.

If you’re new to the bar scene, I’ll narrow down to the only two rules of engagement you need to follow if you decide to go down the bargirl route.

So remember these important rules. I have kept them simple to avoid any confusion.

  • Don’t fall in love
  • Don’t bring more money than sense.
  • Don’t mistake regular Thai girls with a bar girls

Stick to these and you can have fun filled holidays with a Thai girl for as long as you want.

A Thai girl explains why she “dates” so many men at the same time…

But on the other hand, if you believe you’ve started to develop feelings for a bargirl, I strongly encourage you to read our discussion on relationships with a bargirl. That piece has a much more nuanced discussion and details on the complexities and challenges you’re likely to face (and how to overcome them) if you’re contemplating a long term relationship with a Thai girl who happens to work at the bar.

Anybody who’s been in the bar scene in Thailand long enough will be able to confirm the success stories of relationships with bargirls they have personally witnessed. Indeed there has been research in recent times on the dynamics of short-term as well as long-term relationships between bargirls and Western men. The research papers concludes that a career as a bargirl offers them neither economic security nor emotional stability which made them join the profession in the first place.

Know that bargirls are not bad people by any means. Sure there might be a few gold diggers like in the video above. But a vast majority of them are just trying to feed their family and perhaps get a faithful partner. Research in this area has shown that its not common for bargirls to get emotionally attached to men they meet at the bar but which often ends with a lot of emotional and sometimes economic distress for all the parties involved.

Think beyond Pattaya bar girls – what are Thai girls really like?

Thai girls are pretty and you definitely wont run out of of single Thai girls looking for some company in Thailand! From skinny and hot pale skinned girls to some of the tanner yet stunningly beautiful ones, they are definitely a treat for our eyes!

Appearance – beautiful girls everywhere

If I had to summarize what girls from different parts of the country look like, this is how I’d do it:

Composite image showing the average face of Thai girls
Composite image showing the average face of Thai girls

Thai girls from Northern regions are cutest, those from the East are the sexiest, and those from the Central and Southern regions are the hottest. Of course, it’s just my personal opinion, so take it for what its worth.

Thai girls love white skin and silky hair

Thai girls are super crazy about the hair and beauty products they use in their everyday lives. They go the extra mile to find out what is actually good for their hair or skin. And you’ll definitely notice it the first moment you step out of that aeroplane. Their hair is beautiful and silky smooth – the kind you see in commercials from supermodels!

The hot and sexy Thai girls!

Let’s face it. There are a lot more hot Thai girls, than compared western girls have relatively large and plump bodies. It’s just a different gene set (and a lot less McDonalds I suppose)

There are plenty of hot Thai girls are for you if you’re like me and love girls with a nice, slim body. You’ll notice how petite, slim, fit bodies of sexy Thai girls are the moment you lay your eyes on one! Many would describe the overall looks of hot Thai girls as either cute or sexy and hot. In my experience Thai girls can go from cute to hot and sexy real fast with a simple change of clothes and hairstyle.

Hot and sexy Thai girls wearing a bikini on Pattaya beach, Thailand
A hot and sexy Thai girl wearing a bikini on Pattaya beach, Thailand

Of course, but it goes beyond the looks right? I know a lot of guys out there look more on the personality of a Thai girl rather than her physical traits alone (although you definitely won’t lose if you’re just looking for hot Thai girls to be be your girlfriend. There are plenty of sexy Thai girls who are looking for a boyfriend so you have nothing to worry about either way.)

I’ve met my fair share of girls in my adventures here in Thailand and here are some of the personality traits you should probably expect when dating hot Thai girls and if you bother to look around just a little bit you’ll easily be able to find plenty of sexy Thai girls who also have a great personality:

Personalities of Thai girls

While many Thai girls share similarities with one another, no two Thai girls are ever the same and they of course have their individuality as well.

Thai girls with limited financial resources

Thai girls from families with limited financial resources are very likely to be simple, down-to-earth and will understand your needs. These girls may be the right choice for you for you If you plan to settle down in the country side. You will find plenty of these girls in Isan. If you’re planning to get into a relationship with someone in this group, I recommend you read through the next few paragraphs to make yourself aware of the additional complexities that may arise in such a relationship.

Thai girls dressed in traditional attire preparing at a festival in Isan, Thailand
Thai girls dressed in traditional attire at a festival in Isan, Thailand

Thai girls from Isan (and surrounding regions for the most part) usually have limited financial resources and education compared to their counterparts hailing from middle class or well to do families. Ability to speak English might be non-existent. This might make it a bit of a challenge to carry on long conversations unless the two of you choose to learn each other’s languages. This is changing gradually as more and more have access to the internet and try to learn from TV shows etc.

Thai girls from these regions might also be a tiny bit more traditional and have a relatively simple lifestyle compared to those who might have a more urban upbringing. For example, most of the girls I’ve met from Isan don’t drink or smoke and preferred a simple dinner date over a wild night out. So if you’re a guy who prefers a simple walk along the beach over wild parties, these Thai girls might be more attractive to you.

Don’t be too surprised though to find yourself dating a Jersey Shore clone or someone from a music video. They pick up the western mannerisms and the accent and it can be quite funny and endearing. I once dated a girl who kept saying “Oh my gawddddd” in a funny New Jersey accent. OK, she got annoying after a month but it was fun for a while.

This type of relationship might be OK for you if you’re planning to settle down in Thai countryside, because given her limited English (or whatever language is spoken in your country) ability, she may have a difficult time socializing with other people in your home country. This could lead to loneliness and frustration for her although more and more I see Thai girls living in many countries around the world and they always find each other with, you guessed it….. Social media.

So get her a phone and an internet connection and things could be perfectly fine. She will also love the chance to talk with family back home via Skype etc. And when she is happy you can be assured she will make you happy too. It might also be a good idea for you to learn Thai if you’re going to settle down in Thailand and get accustomed to the life in here.

Another challenge that she is likely to face is given her financial standing is that she will be constantly judged for being a gold digger. This is especially true if there is a significant age difference between you two. Like it or not, there are always judgemental people. Some will automatically assume she is a Pattaya bargirl and you will have to proactively protect her from being unfairly judged.

Speaking of the age difference, a girl from a poor family is likely to make bigger compromises and “settle” for less with regards to their partner. She might be willing to get into a relationship with someone twice her age even though it might not be her first choice. However, I recommend you keep the age difference between you and your partner to a reasonable gap because people in vastly different age groups tend to have vastly different lifestyles and this could take a toll on your relationship pretty quickly.

An incredibly beautiful Thai girl from a village in Isan
An incredibly beautiful Thai girl from a village in Isan

On the positive side, one great thing about dating poorer girls is that they tend to have simple tastes. If you’re not the type of guy who likes to showboat and please everyone, then you’ll probably do well with these girls. They will appreciate even the simpler things that you give them so long as they come from your heart.

Simple gifts will do just fine. Simple dates in simple places like a homely dinner in their local town will be more than enough. It’s more of the quality and less of the quantity with these girls. Just make sure that they feel loved and they will love you back with all of their heart.

In short, you will have to carry most of the relationship with these girls even when you’re married and she’s your wife because they usually tend to be insecure about their upbringing in life. They will be happy to play second fiddle to you and will need lots of assurance that you love them because love is one of the things that keep them together despite the hard times them and their families might be facing.

Middle class girls – the ideal girlfriend

Middle-class Thai girls usually have worked hard to get to where they are. You can expect most of them to have a college degree at-least. Most of the time, these girls will have a regular day job or own a small business and earn enough to support themselves.

Middle class Thai girl on her way to work in Bangkok's BTS metro
Middle class Thai girl on her way to work in Bangkok’s BTS metro

These girls are mostly concentrated in the urban regions and are used to a modern, stylish lifestyle. Ability to speak English will be middling to good in most cases. You’ll be able to easily carry off a conversation on various topics with the girls in this group.

Exposure to western culture is limited to what they might have seen in the movies or television. So while they might not be completely used to western culture, cuisine or lifestyle, they will certainly have some familiarity with it. Adaptability to a western lifestyle will also be high if you plan to settle down in your home country.

They will have a say in all family matters, but might be willing to give in to your opinion on important decisions.

Your odds of hitting it off are highest with a woman in this group because the social compatibility is fairly high in most cases. If you find such a person and plan to settle down with your bride in your home country, chances are she’ll be able to find a job there and lend a helping hand with the family finances.

If this is the kind of girlfriend you’re looking for, online dating apps are your best bet to find them, because you certainly won’t find them in Thai bars. From young students to middle aged women with kids, this group account for the vast majority of profiles on Thai dating apps.

You may also find them via some mail-order bride services. While not as popular as a couple of decades ago, these services still do exists. These tour operators will arrange a meet and greet sessions with potential brides to help you find a compatible match that is best suitable for your and your bride’s likes and lifestyle. One positive aspect of these mail-order bride services is that some of them will perform extensive background checks on their clients to ensure genuine profiles.

The rich and affluent girls – money talks.

The very wealthy girls of Thailand! To my surprise, there are actually a lot of them! From my experience, I would split them into two groups.

Most Thai girls have a slim figure with a small body frame
Most Thai girls have a slim figure with a small body frame

The ones who were driven and made their wealth through hard work and perseverance and the ones who spend most of their nights clubbing, drinking and just wasting away their lives wherever they can with their dad’s credit card.

Do yourself a favour and prefer dating girls who have earned their wealth. Don’t get me wrong though! I’ve actually met some girls who were rich from their inheritances and some of them were really nice and realistic. But that’s a rarity that I’m pretty sure most men wouldn’t be willing to take a chance on.

Then there are the girls who worked hard for the most part in their lives in order to achieve the wealth they have now. These girls are all different, ranging from business women, high ranked employees, investors, doctors, lawyers, etc.

These girls also had great quality education early on in their lives so the language barrier won’t be a problem at all.

However, since these girls are used to the high life, they’ll probably expect the same from you as well.

They’ll want to know that their boyfriend is capable of supporting himself and is not just interested in her wealth! They will naturally expect their boyfriends to have a similar social and economic status on their own and perhaps also a decent educational background.

They’ll also want you to show them that you know how to treat a lady well. They won’t necessarily appreciate the simpler things and will want to see that you can play with them at their level. They will also open up many opportunities in Thailand for you and your business.

They will have an equal say in all family matters and your relationship will truly be on equal terms.

To some guys, these girls are usually are a challenge to maintain and they end up having broken relationships. I do know some guys who were willing to take the challenge and actually succeeded in having happy relationships with these girls.

The only way you’ll be able to meet such girls though is through direct introduction via your friends and associates or via some elite match making agencies.

Sex with Thai girls

Thai girl lying on bed
Thai girl lying on bed

Don’t let the shy and generally conservative nature of the regular girls that you see on TV or in the movies sway your opinion.

Thai girls are very private in public gives way to stories and gossip that they are cold and unlovable but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Over the years, I’ve made friends with many men having Thai girlfriends or spouse and I’ve never heard any of them complain about the lack of physical intimacy with regards to their Thai partners. If anything, they only had praises for having found a new, happy and an exceptionally satisfied life when it comes to physical intimacy with their partners.

Don’t believe me? Do a Google search to find people complaining about an unsatisfactory sex life with Thai girls. What you will see are numerous sex related stories with most of them highlighting a happy sex life. Of all the things you’ll find people complaining about, lack of physical intimacy isn’t going to be one of them.

Thailand girls and prostitution aka are regular Thai girls just as easy to have sex with?

A Thai girl working at Walking Street in Pattaya.
A Thai girl working at Walking Street in Pattaya. The street is a tourist attraction primarily for night life and entertainment.

We’ll let a Thai women who co-authored this article answer this question in her own words:

The question here is not as easy to answer as you would imagine.

First up you have to ask yourself this, if you were asked a very personal question like that would you answer it honestly? I think if you were completely honest with yourself the answer would be no or it’s unlikely.

This is also true for Thai girls. So when you ask, you are more likely to get a politically correct answer than their true beliefs.

Being a Thai woman who has lived in Thailand most of their life I can tell you this is an accurate assessment.

I know many girls both in the trade and outside of it and while they may not like prostitution they are certainly more open and aware of its benefits especially in regions where there is very little else to do to feed their families.

Thai girls will not talk openly about it but if it’s what they need to do then they will simply go ahead and do it if that’s what it takes to make ends meet. Of course if you ask their friends or family where they have gone you will get made up stories or flat out replies of “mind your own business” but for the most part this is to save face but both parties know that the other knows exactly what’s going on.

Many Thai girls will be very accepting of others if this is the path they have to take and will often help take care of the girls child or parents while the girl is away working.

In truth the only Thai girls that will be or pretend to be offended are the “Hiso” crowd.

Hiso being the term Thais use for upper class high society girls. In reality many of these are married into the Hiso life and were probably in the game at some point and landed themselves a white knight.

Of course there are many Thai girls that will be against the profession just like in any other country although I would guess it to be a bit less.

Many of the cleaners and food vendors would jump at the chance to make more money and perhaps meet their Knight but without being cruel they just don’t have the looks to be able to do it and have to make do with the lower paid work to get by. Obviously I am not suggesting that all cleaners etc want to be prostitutes but ask yourself this, when was the last time you saw a beautiful Thai girl cleaning a toilet or selling street food? Yes there are a few but not many.

For the lucky ones born into money they will go to college or get a job but may still choose to work at the bar to supplement their income. Yet others simply because they like the excitement and the fun of being wined and dined and bought gold etc.

I know a very well educated girl that has been in and out of the game all her life and could have a regular decent paying job but chooses to live the Gogo girl lifestyle.

So to sum up, yes Thai girls do have comparatively more relaxed views when it comes to working as bargirls. It’s a necessary evil that has given many a life they would never have had without it.

Thailand girls are extremely approachable and friendly and I’m not referring to just the ones who work in the bar scene. They are really easy to chat up with in almost all situations. However, a lot of people mis-read their friendliness as being “available”. Nothing could be farther from truth. And God forbid if you mistake a regular Thai girl for a bargirl. Don’t. Ever.

So if you’re done with the bar scene and want to have a real relationship with Thailand girls, treat them with respect and without being judgemental. So show a little compassion, treat them right and they’re reward you with happiness handsomely.

Thailand girls love romantic dramas with the cheesy TV shows. So let them feel like they are part of the show. Be romantic but do it in a subtle way.

The best way to meet and date Thai girls

Thai girls have nice slim body and prefer dating men from foreign countries over local men
Thai girls have nice slim body and prefer dating men from foreign countries over local men

Thai girls are very very friendly, approachable and so easy to get along with – provided to cross the first and only barrier – don’t come off as an obnoxious sex tourist who is just there looking for a vacation girlfriend. If you’re nice to them and respect them and their culture, they’ll return it in kind. Once you’ve crossed the “sex-tourist” barrier, you’ll have absolutely no problem in making friends.

Given how Thai guys mistreat their women, you can have a huge leg up by just being nice. Be polite. Make a funny joke (Falang eat Falang still cracks them up!). You’d be surprised how receptive Thai girls can be by just being nice to them!

And once they accept you as their partner, Thai girls will happily open the floodgates to your deepest, wildest fantasies. Trust me, they know how to treat their men right! And you’ll have a far far better time having a real girlfriend than visiting the seedier areas of Thailand. If you’re one who is only looking for some short time fun, that fine – we won’t judge you. I personally know plenty of people started of that way, but ended up in a committed relationship soon enough.

Best Thai dating apps for foreign men to meet beautiful Thai girls for free

With the explosion of internet and Thai singles apps, online internet dating has now become easier than ever to find a woman via online dating in Thailand. It’s really easy to find profiles of thousands of beautiful girls on Thai dating apps. ThaiCupid is the grand-daddy of all Thai dating apps and you’ll find at least a thousand women online at any time. Another alternative is Tinder. While Tinder does not have as many members online, the crowd there is younger of the two. Surprisingly, Thai dating websites and apps tend to have far more profiles of girl members than men.

While most of the girls on these dating websites are looking for a stable, long term relationship or marriage, its not uncommon for find a few profiles of girls who are looking for quick hookup. Depending on what you are looking for, just go to the settings section and set your dating preferences so the apps can match daters with the most suitable profiles, interests sexual orientation and other preferences. I strongly suggest you use these features so that you get the best matches with the highest odds of converting your online date into an offline one. Most of these dating services also have a chat feature (usually as a paid feature) that help you connect and get to know them before you meet in person which is great.

Internet dating services are indeed the best way to meet Thai girls if you aren’t already living in Thailand. If you prefer the traditional route (or you’d like to date carrier ladies such as doctors, lawyers, etc) then a traditional matchmaking service is something you may want to consider. There are plenty of such services where your matchmaker with introduce you to eligible single Thai girls.

But finding any Thai girl and finding the right one are two very different things. You can easily find a date but after the first meeting will your partner be the one that you stay with or will she be like one of those Bargirls you have heard about that only wants you for your money? There is no doubt that these GoGo girls exist but are all Thai girls the same? Is the Thai girl you meet going to be a real girlfriend with a real possibility of a long term relationship or even marriage or is she going to be a Walking Street professional and take you for everything she can get from you?

Many Thai girls who come from economically backward areas like Issan move to Phuket, Pattaya, Patong or Bangkok to make a living in the bar industry. They usually find jobs working as a bargirl in what is sometimes called as Gogo bars. They do it in the hope that one day they will meet their White Knight and break free from the game to go on to live a happy life.

So how do you meet good Thai girls that are different from the ones you have heard stories about? It’s all great fun to partake in the Pattaya nightlife when it’s for a week or two but when you want a permanent girlfriend well that’s a whole other story. We will show you how to not only find a Thai girl but how to find a decent Thai girl and hopefully make her your girlfriend and possibly Thai wife all going well.

When dating hot Thai girls…

Dating Thai girls is really easy. If you’re not already in Thailand, your best bet is via a Thai dating app. Just install on your phone and you’re all set to meet and chat with thousands of pretty, single Thai girls (and other Asian girls from South East Asia). If you’re already in Thailand, you should still consider online dating as it gives you an opportunity to chat with thousands of potential partners and get to know them before you decide to meet in person. Moreover, if you’re planning to visit Thailand soon, it’s a great way to get to know someone online first and make a plan to meet them in person when you arrive.

Once you’ve met someone you like and are planning to meet in person, you need to make yourself aware of Thai dating culture. It’s important to make yourself familiar with Thai dating culture and take advantage of the dating tips to impress your potential girlfriend. It’s important because you’d want to come off as a nice guy and not yet another sex tourist. Many men have asked her out before you, and there is a good chance she is going to be judging if you’re boyfriend material. So I strongly recommend you read through the linked article because the rules of engagement when dating good Thai girls are vastly different from what you might be used to back home or even what you might have read elsewhere.

If you’ve ever dated a Thai girl before, you’ll probably know that a lot of them are incredibly shy! You’re most likely going to make the first move when it comes to these girls so make sure to practice those pickup lines! They being shy is also a good thing as personally I’d rather hang round them than with a woman that’s loud and noisy. I’m more into girls who are a little quiet yet are fun, gentle and kind.

Attractiveness: Does a Thai girl care about your age or looks?

Search online for any Thai girl related topic and you can be sure you will get a hundred sites leading you to online dating sites, lad’s holiday websites or sex worker websites. Complete with at least one scantily clad photo of a sexy Thai girl, you’ll be promised you can you can have sex with any Thai girl by simply paying a bar fine and then some. And to be fair, they wouldn’t be wrong in saying so.

Thai girl dating a senior man, having a good time at a mall in Bangkok
Thai girl dating a senior man, having a good time at a mall in Bangkok

After all Thailand is the place synonymous with seedy underground massage parlours and girly bars where you can pick up any Thai girl who will be more than eager to please you. A place where anyone can buy anything as long as they have a full wallet and an empty heart. Every Thai girl is easy and any guy with the budget of a two-week millionaire can pull any girl they want regardless of what he looks like. That’s a fact right?

Well yes and no.

A typical Thai girl has way more choice now – someone their own age. The young have invaded the once wrinkled streets seeking their soulmate with a good family and the myth that they don’t care about how you look or how old you are has become just that, a myth.

A Thai girl dating young a western guy is pretty commonplace these days. Even more so now because things like online dating in Thailand has opened up the pool of “available” men significantly.

If you came here thinking that every Thai girl you meet online is just like a bargirl you would be in for a shock. They (that is to say a non bargirl) is very very different to the type portrayed in many internet forums and websites. They are sophisticated and driven. They know what they want and given the right circumstances they go out and get it. They will not settle for second best and god help you if you try to treat them like anything other than a respectable lady.

A Thai girl, like any other girl, have hearts and feelings and although many will never show their feelings in public you better believe that they love and feel just like you or me. In that respect, they are like any other race. They fall in love with all sorts. I mean you can’t help who you fall for and being handsome is no guarantee that you will land that seductive Thai girl.

Yes looks are obviously important because in any culture it’s what you first see that attracts people to each other but once that infatuation and excitement dissipates then just like anyone else the true feelings come up and how you behave or how you treat them becomes the big factor in how a relationship proceeds and succeeds.

In short, yes, usually a Thai girl will care about looks and age. They do just like any other culture. At the same time, most will be happy to look past your age or looks and even be your wife if they find someone they believe is right for them!

The innocent Thai girl who married a monster

Check out the story of a Thai girl who married a heavily tattod man

In their own words, check out the story of a young and lovely Thai girl who married Loy despite his unconventional body tattoos. Of course, it wasn’t easy, but as you can see, a Thai girl will go the extra mile to make their relationship work when they believe they have found the right person for them. If you’d like to know more about their journey, you can check out their blog post.

Thai girls love the simple things in life – nice food, a comfortable home and a nice guy that treats them well.

Thai girls love their family but you can become part of that family and she will love you forever.

83 thoughts on “Beautiful Thai girls: How to meet and date a hot Thai girl in Thailand”

  1. The first time I was in Thailand, I fell in love with a girl from North of Thailand. She was beautiful and her eyes looks so much like that of my Chinese people..
    They are just beautiful in the North.

  2. Whew, that’s quite a long read! But it’s just what I needed – I’m planning to meet a Thai girl in person that I met in a dating app, so I’m a bit nervous as to how I’m supposed to approach here and this is just so exhaustive I feel like an expert already! 🙂

    1. THAILAND IS THE BEST PLACE  for the  the  farang man with emotional needs, unfulfilled desires , unrealistic  dreams and sexual  fantasies

  3. While the article is well researched, I feel there are too many blatant generalizations. The worst of all is of course that all Thai women prefer white men over any race. While this could be true on the bar scene, its not true in general. There are some things you are spot on especially regarding Thai women from the North and North East. I do however think you do the women from the South injustice because they are very different from the Northern women in both skin tone and temperament.

    1. Hello Pete
      Are you from Thailand? Are you a Thai woman?
      If not then I feel you may know a lot less than you think. I was born and raised in Thailand and have traveled all over the world. I speak fluent English and Thai and have friends and acquaintances from every corner of Thailand and I can tell you without doubt that it is far from a generalization to say that Thai women prefer white males. Its a fact. I have done research on this and many other things over the years and I can assure you that this is the case.
      Obviously not all Thai women go for white men but a huge majority of them do and the reasons given in the article are quite accurate. I was actually surprised to see an article that wasn’t afraid to be honest and was far better researched than most I read.
      I am not even talking about the bar scene you mention as its obvious why many of the bar girls go for the white male but in villages and towns around Thailand most woman will go for a white man before they will take a Thai man.
      Its just a shame that most will never get the opportunity.

    2. I think he is wright i live in Surin City with my Thai wife, and i find the Thais quite racist towards African men, they do not like Arabs and find Indian men creepy and sleazy.

  4. This is only true answer:THEY ALL (ALL) WANT MONEY .if they have chance to find richer white man they will forget you in second… Don’t be stupid fall in love and make mistakes like many people do.If you wanna fun ok.But serious relationship and marriage no f…. way.Remember Thai girls NEVER had only you and you must be stupid to believe what they said lol…btw..nice post bro,but we will not hide and lie… everyone knows how is work

  5. I was in Phuket and Ko Samui Thailand recently for 2 weeks and I didn’t get laid once. I refuse to pay for it, so I opted for the cold approaches and Tinder. Didn’t get anywhere. Direct cold approaches do not get a warm reception there it seems. Btw I am 40, Caucasian, been told I’m very good looking and have an athletic body. Still got snuffed at by Thai girls.

    1. Extremely rare for Thai girls who have nothing to do with the bar scene to get on board with one night stands. You’ll have to build a relationship like anywhere else in the world with proper Thai girls.

  6. Amazing article. I’ve been in Thailand almost 3 years and everything you say is spot on.
    I’m a little confused with my current girlfriend of 10 months though.
    She is super sweet, cleans the house, washes my clothes, and does her job in bed. However she seems to be on the high end with material requests. Recently I was forced to buy her the new iPhone –basically under the threat of her leaving–, and she has hinted about the need to change it every couple of years. She also organized a trip with her family and a couple of her friends, and I’m expected to pay for the hotel. We are 8 in total and I’ll have to pay for a bunch of rooms. I don’t even know some of these people.
    We’ve also talked about marriage, and she expects a sinsod of 2,000,000 baht, even though she never went to university (actually she didn’t finish high school) and basically has no parents. Her mother passed away 15 years ago, and her father married another woman around 25 years ago, forming another family in the process.
    I’m a bit confused because she is super nice, and seems to really love me and look after me. She’s always available, but she believes it’s my responsibility to be the financial provider. Her ex boyfriend was also a farang and she has lots of items (phones, ipads, expensive sunglasses, bags, etc) that were purchased by him.
    On one hand she seems a gold digger, but there is also overwhelming evidence of her devotion to me. She spends basically all her free time with me, provides sex and blowjobs on a daily basis, loves doing housework, etc. She is also a hottie, loves to work out, white and soft skin.
    Thoughts? Is she just super traditional, or am I at the verge of long term financial losses?
    Any input appreciated. Thanks! 🙂

    1. The problem isn’t her, it’s you! You need to say no and that’s it. If she wants to leave, let her. She will always come running back. What she is doing is called “shit tests” where you are failing them when you give in. Each time you let her walk over you, the more she loses respect in you. Only reward good behaviour. Don’t ever put her on a pedestal. It’s the same as with children, if they are good, you reward them but don’t break your bank account by doing so bro!

      My girl thought she could take my wallet one day without asking me and buy whatever she wants. I sent her back to her village for a 2-3 weeks and avoided her 10000 calls and messages. This was 2 years ago where she has never tried to cross that line with me since!

      It’s actually human nature to see how far someone can get away with murder, always be a man and stand your ground. My girl wanted sinsod where I told her I’m not Thai and I only support you, the rest of your family money problems are their problem. She cracked it big time but has learnt to live with it! If she is good, I do give her some money for her family tho but not much.

      I’ve dated many Thai girls over the years where I don’t find them as money hungry compare to Western women that expect to be treated like a princess and treat you like shit. I tell my exs to support themselves but when you are with me, I’m happy to pay. If they ask for more money, I just ignore them. If they push the topic, I will ignore their calls and messages.

    2. It seems to me that in your present situation that it’s all about the money.
      I showed 1million baht on the wedding day and after that, my Thai wife took back the money after the show and put it back into my bank account ok. I bought some gold for her mother and paid for the wedding 200,000 baht and that was it. I am almost certain that your lady is a sorry to say, a gold digger. Why did she leave the other farang? Is it that he decided to close his wallet and see what would really happen? By the way does she have permanent employment?
      If things do progress further, then I wish you all the best of good luck.

    3. I’m Thai girl who read this just to see how foreign guys think about Thai women, and it is quite right!

      As the article said, sadly to tell you this but it is obvious that you seem to be her personal ATM. She just like to be treated. Everybody can says “I love you”, do housework (which may be the only thing she can do), and even having sex. It is very easy and doesn’t use any effort, and getting endless cash in returns. (and somehow girls omay use sex to apologize, it is meaningless)

      She can cry and says “I love you” a thousand times, but it doesn’t mean she loves you. She just doesn’t want to lose that spoiled life you gave. If she loves you enough, she should try to improve herself and doesn’t push you to be the one who take all financial responsibility shamelessly.

      Don’t buy love. It isn’t love you buy. And love shouldn’t be a hostage for any request. Trust me.

    1. Believe me, that’s not true.
      I’ve been in my relationship with my TG for 6 months now and have just come back from visiting her.

      We met on dating site. Talked via apps, exchanged mobile numbers.
      The first 3 months we chatted daily. The chat becoming more and more frequent.
      Now she lives in very rural Isaan, speaks good English ( no she’s never been into the bar scene) she had her own farm and in the Thai way of life is wealthy.
      Me, I’m just a normal Englishman who works to survive and has struggled ( thanks to my ex-wife)
      To cut a long story short.. my TG offered to pay for my flight and offered me to stay in her home.
      So your comment of “ all thai girls only want our money “ has been blown out the water.
      Stay away from the bar scene and search and you may well just find yourself a gold nugget..
      I declined her offer for the flight money but I did stay in her home.
      Spent the first 2 nights in the spare bedroom
      The 3rd night, I will leave that to your imagination

  7. This is another article just like so many I have read from European or people of European decent. I’m sorry to inform you that Thai females love us African Americans. I am a frequent visitor and never have I had a problem nesting nice ladies from any part of the country. I can’t remember one that didn’t speak badly about the white guys. The word most often used was, rude. Everyone has their own opinion but I am one of those dark skinned guys that they don’t like, they love us.

  8. Very good read , agreed with most of them , been in Thailand for long holidays for last 14 years . Course I made few mistakes along the way , lesson learned , you gotta be three steps ahead of them . I owned two condo in Thailand , I had two serious girlfriend that lasted only a year or so , I never told them that I owned two condo . If I did , I guess one of them would be still with me now . Never let them know , you are better off die rich than alive poor .

  9. When I first went to Thailand in 2006, I was newly divorced, and just traveling the world. I was 53, in good shape, and retired because I had spent a career in U.S. Federal law enforcement. Not a lot of money, but in third world countries I was fine. The first day there I walked through a beer fest in Bangkok, and said hi to a Thai woman there. She was with her girlfriend, and I was invited to sit with them. She was 25 years younger than I, but that didn’t seem to matter, and we began dating the next day. In case you are wondering, she has a BS degree in computer engineering and a masters in IT.
    After about a month of dating in Bangkok, I invited her to travel with me, and we literally spent several years all over Asia, from backpacking in Nepal and India to Vietnam and Indonesia. I arranged to marry her in the U.S., and waited 51 weeks for permission to do this. We have been together most of the time since 2006. My wife is 5’6” and 115 pounds, and she at 40 now is still stunning. Some folks I meet in the U.S. think she is 24.
    One suggestion for guys seeking to meet a Thai woman is to take some vacation time and actually GO THERE. I had tried dating sites, but these didn’t work well at all for me. When you see a Thai woman, go up to her and make small talk, and I can say that you have over a 70% chance of her going out with you later. Also, as most are reserved, don’t take her slight indifference to be non interest unless she declines a date with you. Please do NOT take advantage of these folks, as while you probably can, they do not deserve this. Also, don’t lie to them, as you will regret this later.
    Although not for everyone, Thai women are generally good people who would love to meet a westerner. If you want to see how they are, read web sites, and if they seem like what you seek, GO THERE. Also, it is true that many would put family before you, so try to ask about what you want, such as her moving to your country if that is what you seek. You might as well find out early if she would only live in her home town.

  10. Let’s cut the western man bs and call it what it is, white men. With that said, my recent visit to Thailand, things have changed on the white men are prizes thing.
    I noticed black men were in high demand! Why you ask? Hip Hop culture. Go to any bar, club, karaoke joint and you hear black music been belted out the speakers and Thai people moving and acting in a rather black fashion.
    I had one girl grab my junk and said uhh you need two women.haha. That stereotype (a good one I might add) came from somewhere. Those same television and movies you mention have been replaced with music videos, and gossip rags of American black culture.

  11. Wow, long read. I personally think this is a bunch of bullocks. I like a woman I can hold and that has ASSets. Yes, Thai women are slim and they do have a beauty about them. But their bodies remind me of boys rather then women. Give me a Sophia Loren over a Thai girl any day. To each its own. I like more meat in the ass and boobs not little boy boobs thank you very much. Woman with curves please.

    1. Some of them probably yes. Know many women who dont want to leave Thailand and instead want their partner to move to Thailand.

  12. Not every Thai women looking for money. Please if you just heard something bad about, make sense and don’t judge, a lot of Thai women broken heart from Thai men so we just looking for good men from other counties because what we heard that Western man is respectful honest love and caring more then in our country. If you just want to come for sex you will get different of experience and not complain if where you go that Bars and lose lot of money for bar girls. Everything have two side of dark and light. Good women will don’t talk about money, it only you if you want to take care of her, they just want to find love and be with a man who will life life together and take care each other.

  13. As Pete said, parts of this are very spot on, yet other parts are horribly wrong and are based on the typical biases of insecure white men seeking to massage their ego.
    First, western does not equal white, as it’s obvious that there are non-western whites (white Africans, East Europeans and Russians) – most of which Thai girls won’t touch due to the fact that they only really like money – and many non-white Westerners come to Thailand and get treated virtually the same as western whites once they are known to be American, Canadian or British and have money and a nice passport.
    Secondly, there are tons upon tons of stories, articles, and links talking about the many Thai gold diggers that are only seeking marriage with a foreigner for a passport or money. In fact, there was a story a few months ago about a western guy who lost all of his money – immediately, his Thai wife divorced him. He panicked and stole a lot of money, and ended up in a Thai jail cell. But it’s not just Thai, it’s many Asian women that aren’t well-off (Hong Kong gals, Chinese, and even Asian-Americans are notorious for practically hunting such white men for a passport or for money since 40% are living in poverty, or they simply want more money), who are interested in Western guys mainly for money and status (money = status/prestige in Asia), and nothing else, which is why they seek such men (or for a passport). Again, this is well-known, which makes it horrible for white men and non-white Western men to not realize that, 80-90% of the time, we are being used and aren’t actually loved at all except for what we can provide (money/passport).
    Warren Olson, a private investigator researching love scams in Thailand, even admitted that Thai women date white westerners to make money for their families, and often seek Western men (of any race) to get money and/or a passport:
    Would such Thai women date a poor white South African or poor East European? Generally no. Why? I think the answer is obvious. They are lumped together with their stereotyped view of non-Westerners, including their thoughts about Africans, Indians, Middle Easterners, etc. In other words, they are regarded as not financially wealthy. While any Westerner of any race is VIP in Asia, including Thailand, *not* just whites. And they are VIP mainly because of money, status, and the “green card” phenomenon. Which is why, in my experience, it’s so easy to get a girl in Asia if you’e American. The thing is, most whites writing articles like this never get the perspective of non-white Westerners like myself, who have lived in Asia and done the dating game as well – and gotten a large amount of interest from the local girls.
    Once again, simply Google “Thai gold digger” or “Hong Kong/Asian gold digger” and you’ll come up with dozens of stories and failed marriages (and duped expats) who reveal the true nature of such gold diggers, but a few for now:
    As has been noted on forums above by expats who know better –
    “Try Japan is you’re looking for an Asain that isn’t just interested in your wallet..any 3rd world Asain country and they’re going to be all about your money and what you can buy them.”
    “Dey want duhhh american money and den dey wruv u wrong time. That’s how it works brah, especially in Thailand where it’s relatively poor and the working conditions aren’t particularly pleasing.”
    “this, i see LOADS of old white guys dressed in rags following these fobbed out Asian women dressed in versace/ and Louis Vutton”
    “No, not all Asian women, just Thais. If I learned one thing from living over there is to never date a Thai woman.”
    “Most of the 3rd world asian girls are VERY family orientated, they will do whatever it takes to support their family (parents and brothers and sisters and possibly children). Its not like they want to get the money to buy fancy stuff for themselves or whatever, its family first and youre just a tool to them.”
    “in most Asian countries it’s a cultural standard to teach your daughters to marry money. sentiments of love and romanticism are not as highly valued as money and status in the east. it’s up to the individual to choose which is more important and valued to her though.”
    ^ I can go on and on – *however* I’m in no way indicating that all Thai/Asian women are gold diggers, only a good amount – but a good amount are not either (which is why there are so many Thai-Indians, Blasians, and other non-white Interracial Asian couples) – though it’s silly to ignore the reality of materialism in Asia and indicate that most of the old, fat, balding, clearly unattractive white men with young Thai women are due to actual love or romance. Get real.
    As I noted above, as a non-white Westerner who lived in Thailand (it’s important to note that there are very *few* non-white Westerners in Thailand/Asia, most People Of Color there are from India, Africa, the Middle East, etc. and not from the West), I received the same treatment as what you describe regarding Thai girls seeking a white – excuse me, I mean *Western* – guy. I had zero trouble getting a large number of girls on Thai Cupid in both the North and the South of Thailand – and had even more luck in other parts of Asia – *but* I have the sense to realize that it was mainly due to being an American with money. Many Hong Kong and Chinese – and even Thai – will even admit in their profiles that they want a guy from a particular country (for a passport/citizenship) or making a certain amount of money. As an American, I almost got the princely treatment there. And I never hung out around bars, so I wasn’t seeking gold diggers. And guess what? Almost all of the Asian girls I had, in one way or another, asked for – or *expected* – money from me a few months into the relationship. Western guys are a “chick-magnet” in Asia – regardless of whether they are black, white, green, purple or blue with polka dots – because we are regarded as having money. Again, such women would rarely consider relationships with a poor East European or Russian, or white African (all of whom are discriminated against in Asia, by the way), while Indians, Blacks and others *from America/Britain*, often have a large number of girls interested in them once they are known to be from the West – a case in point that in Asia, especially Thailand, money, status and materialism are all that matter, not race or ethnicity. In fact, a rich Nigerian would score more than a poor East European any day. Just the other day, a Hong Kong gal send almost $200,000 USD to her Nigerian lover from a dating app because she was so in love with his status as a prominent Nigerian businessman (he was actually a scammer):
    And that’s the point – gold diggers aren’t interested in the person – they’re in love with the money/status/citizenship that the person has, and what it can do for them.
    There was a huge outrage over a Hong Kong event to get HK women hooked up with Western, white men called “dinner with a foreigner.” Ultimately, it was a setup to get Mainland Chinese women (gold diggers) a “legal” way to get a Western, foreign passport and thus entry into the West – and for them to get Western money – which is why the women had to pay $600 upfront to enter!
    This doesn’t mean all Asian girls are gold-diggers – I do not know the percentage – but alot will *greatly* consider your nationality – and thus how much money you have – before they consider anything else, including race/skin color or anything else. Which is why the first thing they will ask is “where you come from?” Materialism is rampant in Asia. *However*, Asian women are simply pre-conditioned to think that whites have a lot of money, and only when others are known to be Western, will they believe that they have money as well, which is why they flock to whites first – because of the perception of having money. Western men of all races should be extremely careful and make sure that they aren’t being used by a women who cares nothing for them, and only regards them as a walking ATM machine – a term that a white guy in Asia used to describe how they are often thought of by Asian women, especially in Thailand.

  14. Forgot to add:
    It is titled: “After dating 5,000 guys, Thai woman creates course on catching rich white men”
    It notes: “In one of her live videos, Praiya added that she does not just accept anyone in her course, she only wants to work with women who are really serious about becoming a gold digger.”
    ^ There you go, more evidence – Western money is what they like, not Western men.

    1. Although Thai women have a fetish for Western men, more often than not they are easily willing to look past your skin color if you come off as a nice and responsible individual who respects them.

  15. My first experience with a Thai girl i was a lucky one , she was a nice girl but just the lack of communication was our down fall and I regret not being more patient because since then i have yet to find a nice one , my last girl I met had just come from a pharmacy to start work in massage.

    I had previously dated a girl in massage and she was a full blown working girl averaging 5 men a week I was told, so I didnt want to really go with a massage girl again even though it had only been a month, I know what they do in them places they groom the girls , to go with men to make the shop money, but i was assured by a friend in the shop she was a good girl, I checked her work books no payments out of the shop. I asked my freinds on teh street if they had seen her with other men, no was the answer not like the other girl you had.

    I checked her phone she was clean. I took her for a massage she never tried any thing on me, so i took her on a date she seemed a nice girl so I took her back to the shop and said ill catch you another time that other time was 2 hours later. She spent the night, I didint try for sex but she did and she was shaved. A good girl shaved i thought, but we spent 4 days together in Patong before we both went away to Krabi together, but I noticed changes in her when we were away she was no so connected and affectionate like before. I have since found out apparently one night having sex I put her in a position she didint like.

    Surprising if she did not like it why not say any thing every thing else she was pretty upfront with , but I heard she was told still go with him , probably so I payed the shop and bought her things. I bought her quite a few things. I offered her money she said no she is happy with just the holiday. Any way when I left I thought ok 2 week romance finished, but she kept calling and messaging full on for a week then it started to slowly diminish, then one night she called me said I tired I go to bed but she didnt. She went night clubbing her silly friend tagged her on facebook lol, the next day we talked then she said she is tired again and her phone was off for 4 hours.

    I called her friend and we talked on video from her work for 15 minutes, but I was sure something wasnt right it was like she was rushed back from the shop from some where else to take my call, so i called my friend who works next door and asked him to see if she was at work he said no she isnt there, she not working the girls told him. Of course after all the lies I was exposed to from the last girl in that shop I lost my shit lol, and we didnt talk for 2 weeks , until I messaged her friend as a ploy to see if it was just money she was after.

    I said tell her will pay for her english lessons, bang with in 4 hours she calling me wearing the soccer shirt i bought her and she had both her sons wearing theirs, from her home village she had gone to for a funeral. She didnt talk long to me but sent me a video, it was ok on and off for a week then I called her on the way to work there she was drunk in the middle of a night club her friends giving me the finger telling me she is fine but she didnt hang up.

    She messaged me later said she is so sorry, ultimately what ended it was when I was with her she was the most appreciative girl I have ever met but she changed she dropped her phone smashed the screen I seen it ruined, so I said ok ill send you my old phone which is an apple iPhone 6 in real good condition, but no she didint want that she wanted a Samsung 7 plus a 1300 hundred dollar phone

    I said I’d rather send you 1300 dollars or feed your family than a stupid phone, then the tears started falling crocodile tears like a 12 year old that didint get what she wanted. I was actually not surprised. I knew the girls in the shop would corrupt her. I knew the girl who she was being mentored by would make her change. I knew any girl that has 3 boyfriends and sleeps with countless men would teach her bad ways. I know a girl who worked in their before she told me what they do, if you dont do what the shop asks no one will be your friend, its the reason why she left every day she was being told a man wants to take you but she refused she was a leper in the shop.

    The girl I met said to me you are a good man and I am a bad girl now, dont spend your money spying on me. Dont surprise me when you come next time all sure signs to me she either has other men visiting her or she goes with men from the shop. Since I have dropped her I have had a barrage of abuse from a girl in the shop saying you crazy man she not go with men. She good girl now dont ever come back to our shop. Well guaranteed I wont be, but still cuts me deep I knew I shouldnt have got involved with a massage girl and its cuts deep. The girl I met and my Thai friend that met her even said to me she good good girl we can tell, but either she is a great actress or that shop has done exactly what I thought they would do to corrupt her mind for greed of money.

    I hope if that the case she is smart enough to get out of there like other girls i know have. I am glad in a way I had experienced the girl before it made me move on from the last one easier.

  16. very interesting reading. Thank you for your input. Shame we cannot mind read what the girl wants lol.
    thank you for writing this

  17. The Thai culture was never designed to allow the women marry farangs, they accommodate farangs due to poverty and greed. Most Thai women take their time and when the right moment or circumstances presents itself the farang will be pushed off a balcony or some legal/illegal means used to rid them of their savings.

    1. Find someone who has nothing to do with the bar scene. You’ll see how its nothing like the horror stories you read about on the internet.

  18. So funny that this guy actually believes that Thai girls choose white men because of skin tone or build. That is so ridiculous, everyone knows that foreign woman are into white guys because of the money (especially Thai girls). Quit lying to yourself!

    1. Find someone outside of the bar scene and you’ll see most want to be loved and respected. Not so say there are no gold-diggers, but its no more or no less than any other place in the world.

  19. Wow… just wow. You could put some bookbinding on this and sell it in stores! xD
    I don’t know if everything is right 100% or not but sure it is a great starting point if, like me, you are totally clueless about how to approach one of those angels.
    I’m very grateful that you’ve taken the time to put this together. I can only imagine how much you’ve spent. And so well structured.

  20. “Seeing how you have a blatant lack of concern for cash she then thinks ok if you’re going to spend it then you may as well spend it on her.”
    This logic. You saved your hard earned cash and now you want to spend it. Spend your money however you like. If someone feels entitled to your money because of this, you should part with them immediately. There are plenty of women- if not in Thailand, elsewhere.

    1. There are in fact plenty of women in Thailand itself who aren’t for your money. Just skip the bar scene to avoid the horror stories. I’ve seen people have successful relationships with former bar girls too, but it takes a lot of effort from both the parties to make it work.

  21. Just got back from my first visit to Thailand. I met my new friend online. Had met others online too, but when I traveled, it was to meet just one. This column is outstanding. I found it spot on, based on my limited time in Thailand. I think it really comes down to the best advice which is relevant ANYWHERE in the World…..JUST BE YOURSELF. NO BS…NO FALSE BEHAVIOR.
    As far as determining the truth(s) about your new female Thai friend, you just have to do it the old fashioned way…..hang out…live life daily….TRY to do things that are normal, natural, typical, in order to bring out the “real her.”
    My new friend NEVER asked for money online or in person. I was/am generous. She was/is appreciative and has NEVER asked for money during the trip…or after. I sense that is not what our “relationship” was/is about. BUT… time will tell…as it always does ANYWHERE in the World.
    Thailand is much different from the West. It is CHEAP. And, the women appear to be beautiful and charming. Hope you ALL find those Thai women.
    I’m going back. Just bought my next flight tickets. More time with my new friend. More time in HER country and her culture.

    1. Exactly! The horror stories you hear are almost always from the ones who work in the bar scene. Just find someone with a real job and you’d be amazed at how much joy they can bring to your life!

    1. While most will automatically show preference to White men from western countries, spend a little time with them and they will open up to almost anyone. They do have some strong opinions about men from some specific countries as they are generally known trouble makers, but other than that, feel free to approach anyone in a nice, polite and respectful way and you’ll be all set!

  22. i am average Thai girl ,just working girl not a bar girl.
    these stuffs are awesome i can tell .
    i love the comparison about western girl who want her man to be independence
    but if man who has thai GF show much independence like he can live without her ,she will leave you .
    Yes !! for me it’s really true
    ” They want to know that you still care for them by giving them lots of your time and through the little things like checking up on them often, etc. They won’t mind if you’re always looking out for them because they want to know just how much you really value them in your life”
    and many more informations really true

    1. Thanks for stopping by, Jane! We indeed had this article co-authored and reviewed by at-least two Thai women to make sure its as authentic as we can possibly get it. There’s plenty of humbug being peddled on the web on Thai women. We’re so glad you can concur with what we had to say!

  23. I am a westerner and have had a Thai GF in my life for a few years and well…
    I sat here reading this top to bottom (this page) and am absolutely floored by how well you describe, detail and define Thai women.
    Some of the things you pointed out I had been so frustrated by over the years and now realize it was, it is, just who she is.
    You nailed the cheesy TV shows, the devotion to pleasing and her needing to feel loved and appreciated, the commitment to family, to being adventurous even in its simplicity…. and well… no need to re-write all that you said so spot-on perfectly.
    Well done!

    1. Hi Dave, so glad you found the article is in line with your experience with your partner. We did spend a significant amount of time to make sure we get this right by having a Westener and a Thai women share their opinion based on their first hand experience as well. Thanks for stopping by 🙂

    1. Sorry you’ve had a bad experience with Thai girls. I’m sure you have your reasons, but life it too short write off an entire country of opportunities based on the experience with a few rotten apples! Just try finding love outside of the bar scene, and I’m sure you’ll find some amazing women who’ll treat you well. Peace

  24. Within Thailand, there is general knowledge that (most) pure “Tai” live in the north, they have light skin but not because of Chinese blood, few percentage of northerner have Chinese blood comparing to the like of Bangkokian.

    Google “Mitochondrial DNA Variation of Tai Speaking Peoples in Northern Thailand”

  25. Not to misdirect, but how far does the 1500mo USFunds Retirement Check stretch into days (2019) Market. I assume more valuable in the North and inland.

    thank you

    1. If you stay out of the tourist areas and bigger cities and your accommodation has been taken care of, $1500 could get you a fairly comfortable life.

  26. I really love Thai girls. I have been to Bangkok and even found few friends. I can’t wait to go back and might even find a Thai girlfriend.

  27. Good article. I went to Thailand this past January and met a Thai girl in the bar in Patong. I had a totally different experience than what was written here, but I didn’t lead with my wallet and I took her out on a date and not go right to the hotel after our first meeting. We spent time together and I went back to see her this past March for my Birthday like I promised I would. She spent the whole time with me and she didn’t ask me for money, and she even bought me breakfast on my birthday. I did pay the bar fine so she could spend that time with me, but it was my choice and she didn’t make me feel bad if I didn’t do it. We went to many places together and had a great time. She stuck with me until I went to the airport and I didn’t give her any money for the time we spent together, plus we only went out to drink twice and the rest of the time we did fun things with no drinking. I am 43 and she is 35. I am exploring this relationship with her, but I do realize how we met. She doesn’t want to leave Thailand, which I’m fine with that. I’m thinking about moving there and even if it doesn’t work out with her, there are many other Thai girls there. I’m from the US, and I currently live and work in China, so my situation is different than a lot of other guys. I’m going back next week to see her in her home town (Udon Thani) and meet her family. I will see how that goes and take it from there. I’m thinking clearly, and my emotions are level. I like her, but she has to prove to me she’s going to be a good companion, but any guy that is reading this, I would not recommend getting involved with a girl from Phuket, Pattaya or massage girls. You really have to be thinking with the head on your shoulders and not your little head. When I met her, I wasn’t even looking for a long term relationship, especially with a bar girl, but I can see a lot of good qualities about her and the week we spent together, I didn’t see her phone blowing up with guys texting her. She mostly spoke to family. I know this because we spent night and day together. When I send her a message, she messages me back in a timely manner, but it’s still early to tell how well it will work out. It’s a gamble, but I don’t have a lot invested, but in any relationship, you will have to invest not just money to make it work.

    1. First of all, congrats – looks like you’ve got a keeper.

      Second, there are plenty of cases where girls who work in the bar scene genuinely starts to have feelings for someone they met at the bar. I personally know of such relationships where the couple are now happily married for several years and have kids now. Not every one who works at the bar does so with bad intentions. Many are there because they simply do not have any other option and they just want someone who will genuinely love them and respect them.

      My only advice to you would be to give your relationship a bit longer and get to know each other really well before taking any big step. Wish the two of you all the best in life!

  28. I love Thai girls. They are fun to be with. Had my first time experience with Thai girl and it was amazing.

    1. I am missing out Thai girls really love really missed 29 December. Enjoy my holiday in Phuket arrival in 27 December level On today 3 January. I regret should Thailand girls get on with love to meet Thailand girls. Are come back Phuket this year December.

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