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Dating Thai Women · Thailand

How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend or Ask Her Out

To ask a girl to officially be your girlfriend, ask plainly, once, at a quiet moment when your time together already points that way: "I don't want to see anyone else. Will you be my girlfriend?" No line guarantees a yes. A vague, late or missing answer isn't a yes, and nothing has been agreed.

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Published September 5, 2016 · Updated October 12, 2026 · 26 min read
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Contents · 14 sections
How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend: plain words, onceWhat 372 people on a Thai forum and an English one say about askingDo you have to ask her officially, or is it assumed?How long before you ask a girl to be your girlfriend?How to ask a girl out on a first dateHow to ask an Asian woman outShe said “let’s see” or laughed it off: how to read a vague answerAfter a soft no: stop pressing and keep it friendlyWhen she keeps you waiting for a statusBig gestures, festivals and asking in front of peopleWho should ask first? When she’s the one who wants clarityAsking her across the distanceQuestions readers askWhat our count can and can’t tell you

We counted what 372 people on a Thai forum and an English one say about asking someone out or making it official. The most common advice is to ask plainly (78 of the 372), and the next most common is to read a vague, delayed or missing answer as a no or a not yet (65). How to ask matters less than whether you’re ready to hear the answer she actually gives.