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Thai girls only want your money and a green card.
These are the kind of over simplified headlines about Thai girls you see every day on the internet.
On this page
- What are Thai girls really like?
- Personalities of Thai girls
- Physical intimacy with Thai girls
- Do Thai girls have more relaxed views on prostitution?
- The best way to meet and date Thai girls
- Relationships with bar girls
- Do Thai girls care about your age or looks?
- The innocent Thai girl who married a monster
- Are Thai girls easy to bed?
Many men come to Thailand seeking to befriend Thai girls during their holiday, a few to marry or perhaps seek a more long term relationship with Thai girls. Indeed its very common a lot of people in the former group to turn into the latter. But often, the single biggest mistake they make is they look for good Thai girls in the wrong place as you will see later in this article.
The old saying goes that there is someone for everyone and in Thailand that is definitely the case for a single white male. The reason being, Thai girls will prefer dating Western men over the average Issan village kind of guy any day.
If you’re ready and open to explore the art of dating Thai girls then get comfortable because this might take a while. I’ll show you the best way to meet and date Thai girls girls and reveal the secrets to turn your online dates into an offline one in the shortest possible time. You’ll also learn how to avoid the biggest mistakes that could leave you with an empty wallet and a broken heart. Let’s just say it’s going to a wild ride.
Be warned though, once you’ve dated a genuine Thai girl, there’s no way you’re going back to dating girls from your home country. So proceed only if you can deal with that!
ets start with some basic questions I get asked about dating Thai girls.
What are Thai girls really like?
Thai girls are pretty and you definately wont run out of of single Thai girls looking for some company in Thailand! From skinny and hot pale skinned girls to some of the tanner yet stunningly beautiful ones, they are definitely a treat for our eyes!
If I had to summarize what girls from different parts of the country look like, this is how I’d do it:
Thai girls from Northern regions are cutest, those from the East are the sexiest, and those from the Central and Southern regions are the hottest. Of course, it’s just my personal opinion, so take that with a pinch of salt.
The obsession with white skin and silky hair
Thai girls are super crazy about the hair and beauty products they use in their everyday lives. They go the extra mile to find out what is actually good for their hair or skin. And you’ll definitely notice it the first moment you step out of that aeroplane. Their hair is the kind of hair you see in commercials from supermodels!
Face of an angel body built for sin!
Let’s face it. Compared to Thai girls, a lot of western girls have relatively large and plump bodies. It’s just a different gene set (and a lot less McDonalds I suppose)
Thai girls are definitely for you if you’re like me and love girls with a nice, slim figure. You’ll notice how petite, slim and fit their bodies are the moment you lay your eyes on one! There’s definitely a big difference between a western girl and Thai girl when it comes to their bodies.
Of course, it’s not all about the looks right? I know a lot of guys out there look more on the personality of a girl rather than her physical traits alone (although you definitely won’t lose if you’re just looking for the physical traits when looking for a Thai girl!)
I’ve met my fair share of girls in my adventures here in Thailand and here are some of the personality traits you should probably expect when dating Thai girls:
Personalities of Thai girls
While many Thai girls share similarities with one another, no two Thai girls are ever the same and they of course have their individuality as well.
Poor Thai girls with a limited educational background
Thai girls from poor families are very likely to be simple, down-to-earth and will understand your needs. These girls may be the right choice for you for you If you plan to settle down in the country side. You will find plenty of these girls in Isaan. While it’s not an ideal situation, if you’re planning to get into a relationship with someone in this group, I recommend you read through the next few paragraphs to make yourself aware of the additional complexities that may arise in such a relationship.
Poor Thai girls from Isaan (and surrounding regions for the most part) usually have limited education compared to their counterparts hailing from middle class or well to do families. Ability to speak English might be non-existent. This might make it difficult to carry on long conversations unless the two of you choose to learn each other’s languages. This is changing gradually as more and more have access to the internet and try to learn from TV shows etc.
Don’t be too surprised though to find yourself dating a Jersey Shore clone or someone from a music video. They pick up the mannerisms and the accent and it can be quite funny and endearing. I once dated a girl who kept saying “Oh my gawddddd” in a thick New Jersey accent. OK, she got annoying after a month but it was fun for a while.
This type of relationship might be OK for you if you’re planning to settle down in Thailand, because given her limited English (or whatever language is spoken in your country) ability, she may have a difficult time socializing with other people in your home country which could lead to loneliness and frustration for her although more and more I see Thai girls living in many countries around the world and they always find each other with, you guessed it….. Social media.
So get her a phone and an internet connection and things could be perfectly fine. She will also love the chance to talk with family back home via Skype etc. And when she is happy you can be assured she will make you happy too. It might also be a good idea for you to learn Thai if you’re going to settle down in Thailand and get accustomed to the life in here.
Another challenge that she is likely to face is because she comes from a poor family she will be constantly judged for being a gold digger especially if there is a significant age difference between you two. Like it or not, there are always judgemental people. Some will automatically assume she is a Pattaya bar girl and you will have to proactively protect her from being unfairly judged.
Speaking of the age difference, a girl from a poor family is likely to make bigger compromises and “settle” for less with regards to their partner. She might be willing to get into a relationship with someone twice her age even though it might not be her first choice. However, I recommend you keep the age difference between you and your partner to a reasonable gap because people in vastly different age groups tend to have vastly different lifestyles and this could take a toll on your relationship pretty quickly.
On the positive side, one great thing about dating poorer girls is that they tend to have simple tastes. If you’re not the type of guy who likes to showboat and please everyone, then you’ll probably do well with these girls. They will appreciate even the simpler things that you give them so long as they come from your heart.
Simple gifts will do just fine. Simple dates in simple places like a homely dinner in their local town will be more than enough. It’s more of the quality and less of the quantity with these girls. Just make sure that they feel loved and they will love you back with all of their heart.
In short, you will have to carry most of the relationship with these girls because they usually tend to be insecure about their upbringing in life. They will be happy to play second fiddle to you and will need lots of assurance that you love them because love is one of the things that keep them together despite the hard times them and their families might be facing.
Middle class girls
Middle-class Thai girls usually have worked hard to get to where they are. You can expect most of them to have a college degree at-least. Most of the time, these girls will have a regular day job or own a small business and earn enough to support themselves.
These girls are mostly concentrated in the urban regions and are used to a modern lifestyle. Ability to speak English will be middling to good in most cases. You’ll be able to easily carry off a conversation on various topics with the girls in this group.
Exposure to western culture is limited to what they might have seen in the movies or television. So while they might not be completely used to western culture, cuisine or lifestyle, it won’t be completely alien to them either. Adaptability to a western lifestyle will also be high if you plan to settle down in your home country.
They will have a say in all family matters, but might be willing to give in to your opinion on important decisions.
Your odds of hitting it off are highest with a woman in this group because the social compatibility is fairly high in most cases. If you find such a person and plan to settle down with her in your home country, chances are she’ll be able to find a job there and lend a helping hand with the family finances. If this is the kind of girlfriend you’re looking for, online dating apps are your best bet to find them, because you certainly won’t find them in Thai bars.
The rich and affluent girls.
The very wealthy girls of Thailand! To my surprise, there are actually a lot of them! From my experience, I would split them into two groups.
The ones who were driven and made their wealth through hard work and perseverance and the ones who spend most of their nights clubbing, drinking and just wasting away their lives wherever they can with their dad’s credit card.
Do yourself a favour and don’t date the girls who inherited their wealth. Don’t get me wrong though! I’ve actually met some girls who were rich from their inheritances and some of them were really nice and realistic. But that’s a rarity that I’m pretty sure most men wouldn’t be willing to take a chance on.
Then there are the girls who worked hard for the most part in their lives in order to achieve the wealth they have now. These girls are all different, ranging from business women, high ranked employees, investors, doctors, lawyers, etc.
These girls also had great quality education early on in their lives so the language barrier won’t be a problem at all.
However, since these girls are used to the high life, they’ll probably expect the same from you as well.
They’ll want to know that their boyfriend is capable of supporting himself because they won’t want to date a male gold-digger! They will naturally expect their boyfriends to have a similar social and economic status on their own and perhaps also a decent educational background.
They’ll also want you to show them that you know how to treat a lady well. They won’t necessarily appreciate the simpler things and will want to see that you can play with them at their level. They will also open up many opportunities in Thailand for you and your business.
They will have an equal say in all family matters and your relationship will truly be on equal terms.
To some guys, these girls are usually too hard to maintain and they end up having broken relationships. I do know some guys who were willing to take the challenge and actually succeeded in having happy relationships with these girls.
The only way you’ll be able to meet such girls though is through direct introduction via your friends and associates or via some elite match making agencies.
Physical intimacy with Thai girls
Don’t let the shy and generally conservative nature of the regular girls that you see on TV or in the movies sway your opinion.
Thai girls are very private in public gives way to stories and gossip that they are cold and unlovable but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Over the years, I’ve made friends with many men having Thai girlfriends or spouse and I’ve never heard any of them complain about the lack of physical intimacy with regards to their Thai partners. If anything, they only had praises for having found a new, happy and an exceptionally satisfied life when it comes to physical intimacy with their partners.
Don’t believe me? Do a Google search to find people complaining about an unsatisfactory sex life with Thai girls. What you will see are numerous sex related stories but none of them will mention a poor sex life. Of all the things you’ll find people complaining about, lack of physical intimacy isn’t going to be one of them.
Do Thai girls have more relaxed views on prostitution?
We’ll let a Thai women who co-authored this article answer this question in her own words:
The question here is not as easy to answer as you would imagine.
First up you have to ask yourself this, if you were asked a very personal question like that would you answer it honestly? I think if you were completely honest with yourself the answer would be no or it’s unlikely.
This is also true for Thai girls. So while the ones you ask may say that Prostitution is disgusting or frowned upon or tell you they would never do something like that. The simple truth is many are lying or to put in a fairer term, they are too embarrassed to tell you the truth.
Being a Thai woman who has lived in Thailand most of their life I can tell you this is an accurate assessment.
I know many girls both in the trade and outside of it and while they may not like prostitution they are certainly more open and aware of its benefits especially in regions where there is very little else to do to feed their families.
Thai girls will not talk openly about it but if it’s what they need to do then they will simply go and do it and just not talk about it. Of course if you ask their friends or family where they have gone you will get made up stories or flat out replies of “mind your own business” but for the most part this is to save face but both parties know that the other knows exactly what’s going on.
Many Thai girls will be very accepting of others if this is the path they have to take and will often help take care of the girls child or parents while the girl is away working.
In truth the only Thai girls that will be “or pretend to be offended and disgusted are the “Hiso” crowd.
Hiso being the term Thais use for upper class high society girls. In reality many of these are married into the Hiso life and were probably in the game at some point and landed themselves a white knight.
Of course there are many Thai girls that will be against the profession but no more than in any other country and I would guess it to be far less.
Many of the cleaners and food vendors would jump at the chance to make more money and perhaps meet their Knight but without being cruel they just don’t have the looks to be able to do it and have to make do with the lower paid work to get by. Obviously I am not suggesting that all cleaners etc want to be prostitutes but ask yourself this, when was the last time you saw a beautiful Thai girl cleaning a toilet or selling street food? Yes there are a few but not many.
For the lucky ones born into money they will go to college or get a job with an airline etc. but even still some of them will resort to prostitution to supplement their money or simply because they like the excitement and the fun of being wined and dined and bought gold etc.
I know a very well educated girl that has been in and out of the game all her life and could have a regular decent paying job but chooses to live the Gogo girl lifestyle.
So to sum up, yes Thai girls do have comparatively more relaxed views on prostitution. It’s a necessary evil that has given many a life they would never have had without it.
The best way to meet and date Thai girls
Thai girls are very very friendly, approachable and so easy to get along with – provided to cross the first and only barrier – don’t come off as an obnoxious sex tourist. If you’re nice to them and respect them and their culture, they’ll return it in kind. Once you’ve crossed the “sex-tourist” barrier, you’ll have absolutely no problem in making friends.
Given how Thai guys mistreat their women, you can have a huge leg up by just being nice. Be polite. Make a joke. You’d be surprised how receptive Thai girls can be by just being nice to them!
And once they accept you as their partner, Thai girls will happily open the floodgates to your deepest, wildest fantasies. Trust me, they know how to treat their men right! And you’ll have a far far better time having a real girlfriend than visiting the seedier areas of Thailand. If you’re one who is only looking for some short time fun, that fine – we won’t judge you. I personally know plenty of people started of that way, but ended up in a committed relationship soon enough.
Best Thai dating apps
With the explosion of internet and Thai singles apps, online internet dating has now become easier than ever to find a woman via online dating in Thailand. It’s really easy to find profiles of thousands of beautiful girls on Thai dating apps. ThaiCupid is the grand-daddy of all Thai dating apps and you’ll find at least a thousand women online at any time. Another alternative is Tinder. While Tinder does not have as many members online, the crowd there is younger of the two. Surprisingly, Thai dating websites and apps tend to have far more profiles of girl members than men.
While most of the girls on these dating websites are looking for a stable, long term relationship or marriage, its not uncommon for find a few profiles of girls who are looking for quick hookup. Depending on what you are looking for, just go to the settings section and set your dating preferences so the apps can match daters with the most suitable profiles, interests sexual orientation and other preferences. I strongly suggest you use these features so that you get the best matches with the highest odds of converting your online date into an offline one. Most of these dating services also have a chat feature (although most of the time, its only available to customers in the paid version) that help you connect and get to know them before you meet in person.
Internet dating services are indeed the best way to meet Thai girls if you aren’t already living in Thailand. If you prefer the traditional route (or you’d like to date carrier ladies such as doctors, lawyers, etc) then a traditional matchmaking service is something you may want to consider. There are plenty of such services where your matchmaker with introduce you to eligible single Thai girls.
But finding any Thai girl and finding the right one are two very different things. You can easily find a date but after the first meeting will your partner be the one that you stay with or will she be like one of those Bar Girls you have heard about that only wants you for your money? There is no doubt that these GoGo girls exist but are all Thai girls the same? Is the Thai girl you meet going to be a real girlfriend with a real possibility of a long term relationship or even marriage or is she going to be a Walking Street professional and take you for everything she can get from you?
Many Thai girls who come from very poor areas like Issan move to Phuket or Pattaya to make a living in the bar industry. They usually find jobs working as a bar girl in what is sometimes called as Gogo bars. They do it in the hope that one day they will meet their White Knight and break free from the game to go on to live a happy life.
So how do you meet good Thai girls that are different from the ones you have heard stories about? It’s all great fun to partake in the Pattaya nightlife when it’s for a week or two but when you want a permanent girlfriend well that’s a whole other story. We will show you how to not only find a Thai girl but how to find a decent Thai girl and hopefully make her your girlfriend and possibly Thai wife all going well.
When dating Thai girls…
Dating Thai girls is really easy. If you’re not already in Thailand, your best bet is via a Thai dating app. Just install on your phone and you’re all set to meet and chat with thousands of pretty, single Thai girls (and other Asian girls from South East Asia). If you’re already in Thailand, you should still consider online dating as it gives you an opportunity to chat with thousands of potential partners and get to know them before you decide to meet in person. Moreover, if you’re planning to visit Thailand soon, it’s a great way to get to know someone online first and make a plan to meet them in person when you arrive.
Once you’ve met someone you like and are planning to meet in person, you need to make yourself aware of Thai dating culture. It’s important to make yourself familiar with Thai dating culture and take advantage of the dating tips to impress your potential girlfriend. It’s important because you’d want to come off as a nice guy and not yet another sex tourist. You’re surely not the first person to have asked her out, and there is a good chance she is going to be judging if you’re boyfriend material. So I strongly recommend you read through the linked article because the rules of engagement when dating good Thai girls are vastly different from what you might be used to back home or even what you might have read elsewhere.
If you’ve ever dated a Thai girl before, you’ll probably know that a lot of them are incredibly shy! You’re most likely going to make the first move when it comes to these girls so make sure to practice those pickup lines! They being shy is also a good thing as it’s not fun to hang around with a woman that’s loud and noisy, for me anyway. I’m more into girls who are a little quiet yet are fun, gentle and kind.
Relationships with bar girls.
Thai girls who work in GoGo bars and girly bars all over Thailand are referred to as Bar girls in internet parlance. These girls sell themselves for money. These girls will love and treat you great but beware…… Once the money runs out usually so do the girls. This is a business and like any business, you get what you pay for and if you can’t pay you don’t get.
If you’re new to the bar scene, I’ll narrow down to the only two rules of engagement you need to follow if you decide to go down the bar girl route.
Stick to these and you can have fun filled holidays with Thai girls for as long as you want.
But on the other hand, if you believe you’ve started to develop feelings for a bar girl, I strongly encourage you to read our discussion on relationships with bar girls. That piece has a much more nuanced and details on the complexities and challenges you’re likely to face (and how to overcome them) if you’re contemplating a long term relationship with Thai girls who work at the bar.
Do Thai girls care about your age or looks?
Search online for any Thai girls related topic and you can be sure you will get a hundred sites leading you to online dating sites, lad’s holiday websites or sex worker websites. Complete with scantily clad photos of sexy Thai girls, you’ll be promised you can you can have sex with Thai girls by simply paying a bar fine and then some. And to be fair, they wouldn’t be wrong in saying so.
After all Thailand is the place synonymous with seedy underground massage parlours and girly bars full of sexy Thai girls who are more than eager to please you. A place where anyone can buy anything as long as they have a full wallet and an empty heart. Thai girls are easy and any guy with the budget of a two-week millionaire can pull any woman they want regardless of what he looks like. That’s a fact right?
Well yes and no.
Thai girls have more choice now – someone their own age. The young have invaded the once wrinkled streets seeking their soulmate with a good family and the myth that they don’t care about how you look or how old you are has become just that, a myth.
Single Thai girl dating young a western guy is pretty commonplace these days. Even more so now because things like online dating in Thailand has opened up the pool of “available” men significantly.
If you came here thinking that all Thai girls were like the bar girls you would be in for a shock. They (that is to say non bar girls) are very very different to the type portrayed in the movies or sleazy tabloids. They are sophisticated and driven. They know what they want and given the right circumstances they go out and get it. They will not settle for second best and god help you if you try to treat them like anything other than a respectable lady.
Thai girls have hearts and feelings and although many will never show their feelings in public you better believe that they love and feel just like you or me. In that respect, they are like any other race. They fall in love with all sorts. I mean you can’t help who you fall for and being handsome is no guarantee that you will land that seductive Thai girls.
Yes looks are obviously important because in any culture it’s what you first see that attracts people to each other but once that infatuation and excitement dissipates then just like anyone else the true feelings come up and how you behave or how you treat them becomes the big factor in how a relationship proceeds and succeeds.
In short, yes, Thai girls do care about looks and age. They do just like any other culture. This by no means is to say they are not willing to look past your age or looks if they find someone they believe is right for them!
The innocent Thai girl who married a monster
In their own words, check out the story of this cute couple who are now happily married. Of course, it wasn’t easy, but they were willing to go the extra mile to make their relationship work. If you’d like to know more about their journey, you can check out their blog post.
Are Thai girls easy to bed?
Thai girls are extremely approachable and friendly and I’m not referring to just the ones who work in the bar scene. They are really easy to chat up with in almost all situations. However, a lot of people mis-read their friendliness as being “available”. Nothing could be farther from truth. And God forbid if you mistake a regular Thai girl for a bar girl. Don’t. Ever.
So if you’re done with the bar scene and want to have a real relationship with Thai girls, treat them with respect and without being judgemental. So show a little compassion, treat them right and they’re reward you handsomely.
Thai girls love romantic dramas with the cheesy TV shows. So let them feel like they are part of the show. Be romantic but don’t overdo it.
Thai girls love the simple things in life – nice food, a comfortable home and a nice guy that treats them well.
Thai girls love their family but you can become part of that family and she will love you forever.